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6:18 pm on Saturday, February 16, 2013
Mr. Gruber: My fiancee was a minor (12) at the time of his offense. Minor children are almost never predatory or pedophilic. He had been suffering physical, emotional and sexual abuse since the age of 6, and his crime was one of acting out, not predatory or sexually motivated. Of course, these are not excuses, and not only was it illegal, but it undoubtedly impacted his victim deeply. He will always feel extreme remorse for his actions, will never repeat them and is doing everything he can to be a contributing member of society and lead a crime-free life. I've told his story multiple times:
http://www.iloveasexoffender.blogspot.com/2012/10/he-is-not-monster.html
https://www.youtube.com/user/sosupporter
http://www.usafair.org/about_shana_rowan
Your interpretation of that particular blog post was not my intended message. Should you truly have an interest in speaking with me and learning about what USA FAIR advocates for, feel free to contact me at shana.rowan@usafair.org. I think you'll come to see that we most likely agree on more than it seems.

12:48 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013
I have already addressed that fallacy in multiple mediums, several times. My fiancee was a minor (12) at the time of his offense, and there was no "rape" involved. That accusation is extrapolated and twisted from his registry entry and the statute under which he was eventually charged, "deviant sexual intercourse", which under NY law refers to a victim under 11, not actual intercourse. Regardless, I (and he) 100% condemn his crime. He was sentenced and punished as a juvenile. He will always feel extreme remorse for his actions, will never repeat them and is doing everything he can to be a contributing member of society and lead a crime-free life.
http://www.iloveasexoffender.blogspot.com/2012/10/he-is-not-monster.html
https://www.youtube.com/user/sosupporter
http://www.usafair.org/about_shana_rowan
It is very easily accessible to anyone who cares to do the most basic research.
7:50 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013
The NAMBLA Smear - If you can't attack the message... attack the messenger
An anonymous Internet vigilante group that goes by the name of “Evil Unveiled” has posted a page that claims that USA FAIR Executive Director Shana Rowan is a member of “The New NAMBLA.” The allegation that Shana would be interested in promoting man-boy love is absurd and slanderous. Shana and USA FAIR strongly support age of consent laws.
Evil Unveiled is expert in demagoguery. They take an element of truth and twist and exaggerate it into something totally false. Shana first became active in sex offender law reform by becoming co-Chair of the New York chapter of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), where she met many dedicated family members of law-abiding registrants working to reform the registry.
It is true that one of the founders of RSOL was using a pseudonym and when he was investigated by other RSOL members and revealed to be an early member of NAMBLA, he stepped down from RSOL. RSOL supports age of consent laws and has never been “affiliated” with NAMBLA.
However, even this tangential connection to NAMBLA disturbed Shana and her New York co-Chair and they resigned from RSOL and helped form USA FAIR.
One would like to think that such a smear is not even worthy of comment, but given that this falsehood appears in a Google search of Shana, USA FAIR just wants to set the record straight.

7:50 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013
The NAMBLA Smear - If you can't attack the message... attack the messenger
An anonymous Internet vigilante group that goes by the name of “Evil Unveiled” has posted a page that claims that USA FAIR Executive Director Shana Rowan is a member of “The New NAMBLA.” The allegation that Shana would be interested in promoting man-boy love is absurd and slanderous. Shana and USA FAIR strongly support age of consent laws.
Evil Unveiled is expert in demagoguery. They take an element of truth and twist and exaggerate it into something totally false. Shana first became active in sex offender law reform by becoming co-Chair of the New York chapter of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), where she met many dedicated family members of law-abiding registrants working to reform the registry.
It is true that one of the founders of RSOL was using a pseudonym and when he was investigated by other RSOL members and revealed to be an early member of NAMBLA, he stepped down from RSOL. RSOL supports age of consent laws and has never been “affiliated” with NAMBLA.
However, even this tangential connection to NAMBLA disturbed Shana and her New York co-Chair and they resigned from RSOL and helped form USA FAIR.
One would like to think that such a smear is not even worthy of comment, but given that this falsehood appears in a Google search of Shana, USA FAIR just wants to set the record straight.

7:50 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013
The NAMBLA Smear - If you can't attack the message... attack the messenger
An anonymous Internet vigilante group that goes by the name of “Evil Unveiled” has posted a page that claims that USA FAIR Executive Director Shana Rowan is a member of “The New NAMBLA.” The allegation that Shana would be interested in promoting man-boy love is absurd and slanderous. Shana and USA FAIR strongly support age of consent laws.
Evil Unveiled is expert in demagoguery. They take an element of truth and twist and exaggerate it into something totally false. Shana first became active in sex offender law reform by becoming co-Chair of the New York chapter of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), where she met many dedicated family members of law-abiding registrants working to reform the registry.
It is true that one of the founders of RSOL was using a pseudonym and when he was investigated by other RSOL members and revealed to be an early member of NAMBLA, he stepped down from RSOL. RSOL supports age of consent laws and has never been “affiliated” with NAMBLA.
However, even this tangential connection to NAMBLA disturbed Shana and her New York co-Chair and they resigned from RSOL and helped form USA FAIR.
One would like to think that such a smear is not even worthy of comment, but given that this falsehood appears in a Google search of Shana, USA FAIR just wants to set the record straight.

7:45 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013
The NAMBLA Smear - If you can't attack the message... attack the messenger
An anonymous Internet vigilante group that goes by the name of “Evil Unveiled” has posted a page that claims that USA FAIR Executive Director Shana Rowan is a member of “The New NAMBLA.” The allegation that Shana would be interested in promoting man-boy love is absurd and slanderous. Shana and USA FAIR strongly support age of consent laws.
Evil Unveiled is expert in demagoguery. They take an element of truth and twist and exaggerate it into something totally false. Shana first became active in sex offender law reform by becoming co-Chair of the New York chapter of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), where she met many dedicated family members of law-abiding registrants working to reform the registry.
It is true that one of the founders of RSOL was using a pseudonym and when he was investigated by other RSOL members and revealed to be an early member of NAMBLA, he stepped down from RSOL. RSOL supports age of consent laws and has never been “affiliated” with NAMBLA.
However, even this tangential connection to NAMBLA disturbed Shana and her New York co-Chair and they resigned from RSOL and helped form USA FAIR.
One would like to think that such a smear is not even worthy of comment, but given that this falsehood appears in a Google search of Shana, USA FAIR just wants to set the record straight.

7:43 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013
An anonymous Internet vigilante group that goes by the name of “Evil Unveiled” has posted a page that claims that USA FAIR Executive Director Shana Rowan is a member of “The New NAMBLA.” The allegation that Shana would be interested in promoting man-boy love is absurd and slanderous. Shana and USA FAIR strongly support age of consent laws.
Evil Unveiled is expert in demagoguery. They take an element of truth and twist and exaggerate it into something totally false. Shana first became active in sex offender law reform by becoming co-Chair of the New York chapter of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), where she met many dedicated family members of law-abiding registrants working to reform the registry.
It is true that one of the founders of RSOL was using a pseudonym and when he was investigated by other RSOL members and revealed to be an early member of NAMBLA, he stepped down from RSOL. RSOL supports age of consent laws and has never been “affiliated” with NAMBLA.
However, even this tangential connection to NAMBLA disturbed Shana and her New York co-Chair and they resigned from RSOL and helped form USA FAIR.
One would like to think that such a smear is not even worthy of comment, but given that this falsehood appears in a Google search of Shana, USA FAIR just wants to set the record straight.

7:43 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013
An anonymous Internet vigilante group that goes by the name of “Evil Unveiled” has posted a page that claims that USA FAIR Executive Director Shana Rowan is a member of “The New NAMBLA.” The allegation that Shana would be interested in promoting man-boy love is absurd and slanderous. Shana and USA FAIR strongly support age of consent laws.
Evil Unveiled is expert in demagoguery. They take an element of truth and twist and exaggerate it into something totally false. Shana first became active in sex offender law reform by becoming co-Chair of the New York chapter of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), where she met many dedicated family members of law-abiding registrants working to reform the registry.
It is true that one of the founders of RSOL was using a pseudonym and when he was investigated by other RSOL members and revealed to be an early member of NAMBLA, he stepped down from RSOL. RSOL supports age of consent laws and has never been “affiliated” with NAMBLA.
However, even this tangential connection to NAMBLA disturbed Shana and her New York co-Chair and they resigned from RSOL and helped form USA FAIR.
One would like to think that such a smear is not even worthy of comment, but given that this falsehood appears in a Google search of Shana, USA FAIR just wants to set the record straight.
7:41 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013
An anonymous Internet vigilante group that goes by the name of “Evil Unveiled” has posted a page that claims that USA FAIR Executive Director Shana Rowan is a member of “The New NAMBLA.” The allegation that Shana would be interested in promoting man-boy love is absurd and slanderous. Shana and USA FAIR strongly support age of consent laws.
Evil Unveiled is expert in demagoguery. They take an element of truth and twist and exaggerate it into something totally false. Shana first became active in sex offender law reform by becoming co-Chair of the New York chapter of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), where she met many dedicated family members of law-abiding registrants working to reform the registry.
It is true that one of the founders of RSOL was using a pseudonym and when he was investigated by other RSOL members and revealed to be an early member of NAMBLA, he stepped down from RSOL. RSOL supports age of consent laws and has never been “affiliated” with NAMBLA.
However, even this tangential connection to NAMBLA disturbed Shana and her New York co-Chair and they resigned from RSOL and helped form USA FAIR.
One would like to think that such a smear is not even worthy of comment, but given that this falsehood appears in a Google search of Shana, USA FAIR just wants to set the record straight.
Shana Rowan
5:43 pm on Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Alrighty. I almost never respond to comments on public forums but seeing as this has become more about my fiancee and I than the issue at hand, some clarification:
Mr. Massaro: You're free to have whatever opinion you like about my fiancee. However, you should also know that voluminous empirical evidence supports the idea that juvenile sex offenders a) rarely offend for predatory/pedophilic/sexual gratification reasons, and b) have even lower recidivism rates than adult sex offenders. You may find his crime unforgivable, but he is living in the community and will continue to do so just like every other person released from prison. Seeing as research supports him being an extremely unlikely threat to children - and he has a steady job, a loving fiancee, and an extensive support system - is it really worth it to you to endanger his, my and our family's well-being for the sake of revenge? Secondly - if a 12 year old was "raped" (in quotations, because he did not "rape" anyone) by a much older adult, I'm guessing you'd find that deplorable? If a 12 year old is capable of understanding the long-term ramifications of inappropriate sexual behavior, how can they possibly also be a victim who doesn't understand the long-term ramifications of sexual activity? Lastly, these are press releases posted on behalf of USA FAIR, not my personal opinion or blog. Hence the third person.
Frank T: major media outlets have covered "the other side" extensively. Google it.